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Honoring our ancestors, by NaturalPantheist

Flamma Vestae Altar, by B. T. Newberg

Veneration of ancestors: “It places us within a story and gives our lives meaning and direction.”

Two and a half years ago my world was rocked to its core when a friend was tragically killed in a car accident aged only 23. He was a very close friend. Coming to terms with his loss was very difficult and within six months I had lost my Christian faith.

As I started to look into alternative spiritualities and practices I came across Naturalistic Pantheism, Paganism and Druidry in particular. These philosophies and religions emphasise the importance of honouring our ancestors, those we have loved and lost, and this really appealed to me.

Last Samhain, I made an altar and on it I placed pictures of my friend and lit a candle to remember him. It was a good experience and I believe it helped me to accept things a lot more.

Woden’s Wandering Witch writes about the importance of honouring our ancestors too and it’s inspired me to do a post on it. Although I have talked about this before, I feel I had some new things to say.

Veneration

If we look at most of the ancient religions of the world, and particularly those that honour the earth, they all have a common practice of Ancestor Veneration. Yes, a lot of it is rooted in a belief that their ancestors somehow live on through an immortal soul, but not in every case. In my opinion, venerating ancestors is a way in which humanity has, for many years, remembered those that it has loved and lost and enabled people to come to terms with the reality of death. Honouring our ancestors, whether they be family members, friends or important people who have influenced our lives, is a practice that I think can be of great benefit to us as Naturalistic Pantheists.

Why veneration?

How? Firstly, doing something to honour our ancestors helps us keep the memory of them alive. While we don’t necessarily forget about the people we have lost, as time progresses and we move on with our lives, we often do not think of them for great periods of time and we lose a connection to them that we once had. By regularly honouring them, we ensure they are remembered…and if we teach the next generation to do the same, then we ensure that we are remembered after our own deaths.

Secondly, it teaches us important life lessons – respect and gratefulness. Honouring our ancestors is a way of acknowledging their influence and impact on our lives and showing gratitude for that fact (yep that includes those you didn’t like too), even though they are no longer around to receive that gratitude. It teaches us respect – for the dead, for the elderly and for other people. We have to take time to focus on others rather than ourselves and to give them a place of honour, and that is a great life lesson to learn.

Thirdly, it grounds us. It reminds us of where we came from and the forces and influences upon our lives. It gives us identity and a sense of connection to the past. It places us within a story and gives our lives meaning and direction.

Veneration of whom?

So now we have seen some of the benefits, lets consider who exactly we should be honouring? The simple answer is – anyone we want to. Generally I would suggest that honouring family members and friends who have died is a good place to start. You could add in family members further back in your past that you didn’t ever know. You could add in important people who lived in your area or influenced your culture but who you feel a connection to. Finally, you could add anyone who has influenced and inspired you in life.

Veneration how?

Yes, I hear you say, I agree with all that, but get specific, what exactly do I need to do?

I have two suggestions here – firstly, do some research and create a family tree as best you can so you can see who your ancestors were and perhaps learn a few interesting family stories about them.

Secondly, make an altar, just as millions of people have done throughout the hundreds of thousands of years of human history. Put some pictures of lost relatives on it, and maybe a copy of your family tree. Decorate the altar with a few candles, objects that remind you of people and anything else you want to. You could either have this altar up once a year – on Samhain, perhaps on significant dates, or all the time.

Create a ceremony to carry out at the altar. It could be something simple like lighting a candle for a minute or something more elaborate including drinking from a remembrance cup and spending time meditating on memories you have of them or holding a minute’s silence. Do whatever you feel helps you.

Just one more thing, I always include a few fossils on my altar. Why? As I said in a previous post on the great story of cosmic evolution, we are the subject of millions of years of evolution going right back to a single common ancestor. All those in our blood line, right back to that first life form that appeared on the earth almost 4 billion years ago, are our ancestors and remembering and honouring them helps to keep that fact alive for us.

This article first appeared at Naturalistic Pantheist Musings.

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NaturalPantheist

NaturalPantheist:  A former Christian, I now see myself as a Naturalistic Pantheist with an interest in Druidry.

I blog at Natural Pantheist Musings on issues relating to scientific and naturalistic approaches to spirituality.
I’ve lived in both China and the UK and I love to travel. I’m a country boy at heart but also strongly believe in getting involved in
my local community here in Devon, UK. My interests include religion & philosophy, social media & technology, current affairs and walking.

My blog is at naturalpantheist.wordpress.com

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From the 21st until Samhain (Nov. 6th), we’ve got a number of articles on death and ancestors coming up.  To kick off, NaturalPantheist asks: How can naturalists revere their ancestors?

Honouring our ancestors, by NaturalPantheist

Appearing Sunday, October 21st, 2012

Thing on Thursday

Althing in Session, by W.G. CollingwoodThis week, Thing on Thursday asks:

How do you enter trance or meditation in ritual?

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How do naturalists relate to death?

Last hum of the cicada: Death in naturalism, by B. T. Newberg

Appearing Sunday, October 28th, 2012

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Part 2: Nature

Part 3: Community

Part 4: Mind

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How do you give thanks in ritual?

2012 Thing on Thursday #4

Last week’s poll asked about the most important elements of ritual liturgy, and the most popular element was “giving thanks.”  This week, let’s dig deeper into this.  How do you go about this in ritual?

Diversity will no doubt be especially great for this question, and the poll can’t hope to cover all possible answers, so please share your ideas and methods of thanksgiving in the comments.

The poll options use the term “benefactor” to refer to any perceived source of benefit.  Depending on your beliefs, this might include nature, evolution, ancestors, gods and goddesses, cosmic creativity, one’s inner intuition, society, family, specific people, etc.  Interpret as you will, and feel free to elaborate in the comments.

By the way, last year Jonathan Blake contributed an interesting opinion on this very subject.

Please choose as many as strongly appeal to you.

Please share your thoughts in the comments.

About Thing on Thursday

Althing in Session, by W.G. CollingwoodThis post is part of a series of councils on matters vital to the future.  The name represents both the generic term for, you know, a thingie, as well as the Old Norse term for a council of elders: a Thing.

Each week from the Autumn Equinox until the Winter Solstice, Thing on Thursday explores a new controversy.  Participation is open to all – the more minds that come together, the better.  Those who have been vocal in the comments are as welcome as those quiet-but-devoted readers who have yet to venture a word.  We value all constructive opinions.

There are only a few rules:

  • be constructive – this is a council, so treat it as such
  • be respectful – no rants or flames

Comments will be taken into consideration as we determine the new direction of Humanistic Paganism.

So please make your voice heard in the comments!

Three Transcendents, part 4: Mind

Separation, by H. KoppDelany

Reaching inward, we discover our participation in something greater than what we normally call ourselves.

– by B. T. Newberg

This post concludes the series on transcendence in naturalism.  Part 1 introduced naturalistic transcendence, part 2 covered nature as a source of transcendence, and part 3 explored community.  Now we conclude with mind.

In our recent poll on symbols of transcendence, nature proved the most popular, with cosmos a close second.  One that didn’t rate highly was mind.  Perhaps it should come as no surprise.  On the face of it, the very idea of it seems absurd: how could you possibly find something greater than yourself in, well… yourself?

But that’s exactly the misconception I seek to challenge: mind is not ourselves, or at least not what we routinely think of as such.

We are not our minds

What most of us, most of the time, think of as ourselves is more or less our conscious ego, especially the part where we feel like we’re thinking, willing, imagining, feeling, remembering, deliberating, and so on.  It’s our most immediate experience, and it’s what we may fear ceasing to exist after death.  However, this represents only a tiny fraction of the total process of an individual’s mind.

The unconscious is far more vast.  To give a taste: cognitive psychologist Timothy D. Wilson estimates in Strangers to Ourselves that our minds assimilate some 11,000,000 pieces of information per second from our sense organs, but only about 40 can be processed consciously.  The rest, according to Wilson, are handled by the unconscious.

There may even be parts of the mental process external to the individual body.  The field of embodied cognition studies the mind in its holistic interaction with body and environment.  Clark and Chalmers even go so far as to ask whether there is any difference between storing information in memory or in a notebook.  Such mental prostheses, they argue, free up mental processing space by offloading some of it into the environment.  This is a controversial claim, but one worth a moment’s pondering.

By mind I mean the whole mind of the individual, conscious and unconscious.  You could also say psyche, a term more popular in Jungian psychology.  It is the root of psychology, and originally meant “soul.”  Psyche is one of many words that have been thoroughly naturalized, just as “god” and “spirit” may one day come to be.

Deep and vast

So, the other parts of the mind do a lot, but do they do anything interesting, or just take care of the tedious stuff?

Consider this: Where do your words come from when you speak?  You may have a vague plan of the idea you want to convey, but do you consciously decide the words or even the nuances of the ideas?  Or do you discover these things in the process of speaking?

Ancient poets like Homer and Hesiod claimed to receive their lines from a muse.  Perhaps, in some sense, they were right.  The “muse” lies in the unconscious.  In a similar vein, Carl Jung said we are not the authors of our thoughts; they are handed to us.  I tend to agree.

Jung also felt that messages from the unconscious await us in our dreams, and such content somehow “compensates” or balances the conscious mind.  I’m not sure how to test that claim, so I remain skeptical.  It may be a case of seeking pattern where there is none.  But there is one thing that experience has proven to me time and again: my unconscious mind can do certain things that “I” can’t.

A power beyond “me”

When I sit down at my Isis altar with an emotional knot that I’ve been working on for days without resolution, and that knot looses within minutes of chanting and talking to Isis, it’s hard to argue with that.

Somehow, an unconscious process is facilitated by the images and actions involved in devotion.  Perhaps the image of a supernormal mother figure like Isis and the bodily actions of rhythmic chanting, gift offering, and intimate confession are mental prostheses in the manner proposed by Clark and Chalmers.  Ritual devotion may not be unique in its ability to facilitate this, but it appears to be one way to do it, and an effective one in my experience.

I’m sure other people’s experiences with ritual may be quite different.  Regardless, this example demonstrates, like a pebble cast into a well, just how far down the unconscious mind goes.  It is not “me”; it is radically “other.”  It is greater in both degree and kind.  To sound its depths is indeed to discover something greater than oneself.

So, although mind did not rate highly on our poll, I’d like to suggest reconsidering it, not only because it is perhaps the most well-established among naturalists (via Jungian Paganism), but also because it helps us to discover transcendence “closer than your own jugular.”

Three Transcendents, part 3: Community

Optimism, by H.KoppDelaney

In relationships with other people, we participate in something greater than ourselves.

– by B. T. Newberg

This post continues the series on transcendence in naturalism.  Part 1 introduced naturalistic transcendence, and part 2 covered nature as a source of transcendence.  Part 4 will delve into mind.

Photo by Warren K. Leffler

On August 28th, 1963, over 200,000 men and women descended upon Washington, D.C.  Had an alien observer looked down on this from orbit, it would surely have been a curious site: What a remarkable capacity this species has to form groups!

Such a distant observer might have compared it to other earthly sights, such as the buzzing of a beehive or the march of an ant colony.  Certainly they shared something in common.  Yet this would have missed that this collective unit was also a gathering of individuals.  Hundreds of thousands of unique personalities joined to demonstrate commitment to something greater than themselves: the ideal of justice.

It might not have been obvious to our alien anthropologist that the gathering expressed deep rifts in the community, frustration at the systematic disenfranchisement of an entire race.  It might not have been clear that the footfalls of each individual rang with suffering, and hope against all odds for something better.

We know better.  Our species has a deplorable capacity for cruelty, especially toward outgroups and deviants within-group.  At the same time, we also have the power to cooperate and achieve great things when we come together.

Society and culture

To belong to a group, to embody its goals, is to transcend oneself.

A society is more than the sum of its constituents; a group will emerges that moves in ways no single member may direct or predict.  It transcends the individual in both degree and kind.  At the same time, individuals participate in that greater movement, part and parcel of it, and may dissent as part of the greater process.

We are social animals, said Aristotle.  Nearly two and a half millennia later, it still rings true.  Our urge to form associations is bred into us by evolution.  Groups able to organize around common goals out-competed those who could not, and we are the genetic results of the more successful groups.

This is not always a rosy situation: groupishness is good for in-group cooperation, but also fosters nastiness toward other groups as well as deviants within the group.

Yet, for better or worse, we cannot deny ourselves.  We are tribal by nature.  And in taking part in groups, we reach toward something larger than ourselves.

Nor could we ever truly get outside the social, even if we tried.  Even a hermit in solitude, gazing across untouched wilderness, sees that wilderness through the eyes of a culture.  One continues to think in the language and categories of one’s society.  It is no more possible for a human to exist without culture than to exist without a physical body.  Culture is part of our very being.

This is not to suggest there is no such thing as freedom or individuality.  Each of us integrates diverse cultural streams in unique ways, and we can produce creative new expressions.  Yet there is no denying the fact that each free and unique individual is part of society, just as each wave is part of the sea.  Society is part of the human condition.

Thus far I’ve been using community, society, and culture more or less interchangeably.  Now, I want to draw attention to some more specific concepts.

Community vs. collective

I chose the example of the March on Washington for several reasons.

First, it’s not overly optimistic.  The march protested problems that still persist today, problems endemic to the tribal nature of our species.

Second, it’s not overly pessimistic.   The march is widely credited with helping to pass the Civil Rights Act and Voting Rights Act.

Finally, it shows the care demanded by this form of transcendence (and indeed all forms) to affirm rather than negate the individual.  Communities involve individual sacrifices for the good of the whole, but must at the same time promote the individual interests of all members.

In this vein, Martin Buber distinguished between community and collective.  The former promotes the group for the individual, while the latter promotes the group at the expense of the individual.  There is always a tension between these two in any group.  Community is of course the ideal, which requires vigilance against collective.

The ancestors

Through community we can reach not only outward to other people, but also backward to our ancestors.

By identifying with our predescessors, be they ancestors of blood, culture, or inspiration, we become aware of the shoulders on which we stand.  Those who came before can teach us about ourselves.  By appreciating their contributions, we can learn humility and gratitude.  By studying history, we can also learn their hard-earned lessons, including patterns we should not repeat.

Ancient ways, by virtue of having evolved over great spans of time, frequently embody knowledge we hardly suspect.  This is one reason why I advocate strongly for working with ancient myths rather than creating new ones.  Ancient myths evolved their forms by cultural selection over time.  They survived because they spoke to people across many generations, made sense of diverse challenges and calamities, and empowered multiple ways of life.  There is no reason not to try out new myths as well, but neither should we ditch old ones in our haste.  Ancestral traditions deserve our continuing reverence.

Through contemplating our ancestors, we come to know ourselves as beings in time.  We feel ourselves glints on a wave pushing across an ocean.

Beyond the human: A community of all beings?

The question of revering ancestors leads to another: how far back shall we trace them?  To the golden age of our favorite culture?  To the emergence of homo sapiens?  To the first life?  Or all the way back to the Big Bang?

Contemplating these questions, ancestry expands to include all of Big History.  Nature then appears in its aspect as community, a cosmic family.  Earth may become mother, sky father, and creatures cousins.

This reveals a characteristic typical of symbols: the deeper you follow them, the more they appear everywhere.  They blend one into the other in an endless web of meaning.

Community and compassion

Finally, a word may be said about the moral potential of transcendence through community.  This can hardly be better expressed than in the Charter for Compassion, proposed by Karen Armstrong to serve like a Magna Carta for the world’s major religions:

The principle of compassion lies at the heart of all religious, ethical and spiritual traditions, calling us always to treat all others as we wish to be treated ourselves. Compassion impels us to work tirelessly to alleviate the suffering of our fellow creatures, to dethrone ourselves from the centre of our world and put another there, and to honour the inviolable sanctity of every single human being, treating everybody, without exception, with absolute justice, equity and respect.

I would only add that this principle goes beyond religion to include most secular societies as well.  Despite atrocities committed by both religious and secular groups, most all communities have compassion at their core.  Sometimes it is only a seed, and our job is to constantly water it in anticipation of its bloom.

The power to transcend ourselves through compassion, “to dethrone ourselves from the centre of our world and put another there”, is a basic human capacity.